
Hard Limits: Yes, You Have Them
Sub: "Mistress, I want you to control me." Me: "Great, Book a session and I need a list of your kinks, hard limits, soft limits, and safe words." Sub: "I don't have any hard limits" Me: "Fine, shave half your head, one eyebrow, tattoo my name on your scalp, and be a walking billboard for me." Sub: "Okay not that. I want you to control me" Me: "Okay, punch your balls, lick a toilet seat, bark like a dog and buy me a gift".... Sub: "Oh I am not into any of that." THEN YOU HAVE HARD LIMITS. STATE THEM!!!!! Now that I have that off my chest; let's talk about hard limits, misconceptions, and negotiations. Every good scene starts with negotiation. Why? Getting Consent Have you seen consent fries? Have one, have two, have thirty! They are healthy and good for you. Share them with your friends. Consent is...Read More